How To Start Choosing Yourself


Hi Resilient Sunshine,

You're done surviving. But there's a messy middle between "ready for change" and "acting on it".

We don't talk enough about that although it is the most important part of the journey. That famous "enjoy the journey, not the destination"? Well, this messy middle is it!

You don't always need a Plan B

The latest episode with Alex was poignant. For her, change was about the real survival. "It just came to a state when couldn't live like that anymore".

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She shared not only the relief of choosing herself but also everything that it meant to do so. Fully transparent about her messy middle without sugar coating anything: the stress of not having a back up plan, the hoops she had to jump through, and how nothing of this stress compared to the horror of what she left behind.

Waiting is keeping you stuck

Not knowing where to start is often creating a block. Even considering the humongous amount of work ahead causes us to freeze. But when you start taking that one step forward and feel like stepping back, here a sweet reminder for you to keep going:

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So how do you whisper louder about your worth?

You can learn from someone who's already done it! If you are good at what you do and quietly tired of being overlooked, talked over, or passed up, especially by yourself, register here to join the live with Melitta Campbell.

Bestselling author and TEDx speaker, she is the business coach for women behind Value Whispering. But before that, she's been in your shoes: doing her best quietly not getting anywhere.

We're going where most "confidence" talks won't: the wall she hit, the inner shift that changed everything, and what it actually takes to stop accepting crumbs in your work, your worth, and the way you speak about both.

A final note about worth and value

16 women spent the May bank holiday Sunday with me to talk about money. The relationship they have with earning it, the beliefs behind the question of whether they deserve more.

I facilitated the workshop on resilience and earning for a community of women in Bangkok, and on popular demand, will be hosting it online for you to join from your own home.

Get your seat and join to debunk the patterns holding you back!

Your worth is non negotiable.

With Love and Resilience,
Mouna x
Writer |Podcaster | Resilience Builder
From survival to healing out loud 🎙️
YT: @thegritmakers | IG: @mounalaaragat

Mouna Laaragat (aka The Burnout Exorcist)

I walked away from a 6-figure startup career to prove one thing: you can build success without self-destruction. After 13 years of hustling myself into burnout, I now help high-performers and creatives break up with grind culture—using equal parts NLP coaching, dark humour, and hard-won nomadic truths (yes, the Wi-Fi meltdowns are real). You’ll find me:🍵 Slurping matcha while debunking "rise and grind" nonsense 🎙️ Interviewing grit-makers who’ve rebuilt after burnout (or breakdowns) ✈️ Geographically confused (London → Bangkok → Cape Town → Casablanca) My newsletter is for you if: You’ve ever cried in a Slack thread but still said "I’m fine!" Your dreams and dread feel equally heavy You want real talk about resilience—zero toxic positivity included! Subscribe for: Unfiltered burnout prevention hacks Behind-the-scenes "WTF is sustainable success?" stories Podcast teasers that won’t waste your time. Think of me as the friend who won’t let you glorify overwork—but will send memes at 2AM.

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